I believe that Love is Forgiveness. The more I think about it, the more I consider that Love and Forgiveness are one and the same thing. We can use the words interchangeably. In the same way that you can say God is Love, you could equally say God is Forgiveness.

Preachers often discuss the Lord’s Prayer: “Forgive us our sins as we forgive those that sin against us.” They explain it as meaning that God will only forgive us to the extent that we forgive others. If God is Forgiveness, then that reasoning is fundamentally flawed. God is incapable of withholding Forgiveness. I understand it to mean that we are programmed to receive forgiveness only when we forgive those who sin against us.

If Forgiveness is Love, then that means that we could replace those words with: “Love us as we love those who have sinned against us.” This makes complete sense of Jesus’ words that we should do good (forgive/love) those who persecute us and forgive them. When we do this, then we will be able to receive God’s love.

The commandment to “love one another as I have loved you” could similarly read “forgive one another as I have forgiven you.” “Love your neighbor as yourself” is the same as saying “forgive your neighbour as you forgive yourself.”

Forgiveness brings healing. I wonder how many people would recover from their illnesses if we all practiced forgiveness and love all the time.

Lets all forgive each other. Instead of saying “I love you” to people, maybe we could sometimes try using the phrase “I forgive you,” (where it applies). It would take on such a powerful and meaningful significance and perhaps transform relationships.

I can just hear it in my head now – the new song by The Beatles “All you need is Forgiveness”.

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